Friday, July 10, 2009

There Can Be No Winners

The family of the two brothers charged in the stabbing incident on June 17th at St. Joseph Catholic Secondary School in Mississauga is delighted that the boys were granted bail today. Violence in our schools hurts not just the perpetrators and victims but the entire school body, the community, families and friends. In these situations there can be no winners. As a society we must categorically denounced violence in schools across the Greater Toronto Area.


Since the incident at the school I have had the opportunity to spend a significant amount of time with the parents of the two brothers. During this time I have seen their emotional turmoil. I have seen their tears as they struggle internally, both individually and collectively, searching for answers, understanding and compassion.


The boys' parents are people whom I admire and respect. I think they are best neighbours in the world. Both are hard working. Both want nothing but the best for thier children. Both gentle and kind. They are quick to shovel the snow from my driveway in the winter. In 2007, I was honoured when the mother of two brothers lend a helping hand to care for my ailing mother.


Today in court I had the opportunity of meeting the parents of two of the boys hurt during the incident at the school. I also observed their emotional turmoil. Unequivocally, violence in our schools rips us apart individually and collectively as community. The pshyscological, emotional and physical scars are deep and enormously painful. Today when I held the parents of two of the boys injured in the incident I felt every ounce of their pain.


I am absolutely confident that this not an experience I would want for myself or my wife. No parent, family, friend or community should have to endure pain caused by violence in our schools. It is abundantly clear in my mind that there can be no winners when violence enters the schools in our communities. It is for this reason that we have to be resolute in our campaign to stem the tide of teen violence that has entered schools across the Greater Toronto Area.